An instructor gave the class a large empty jar, several rocks, smaller gravel, some pebbles, sand, and a glass of water. The class was instructed to fit ALL the objects into the jar with none left over. Many tried variations of filling the jar without success and said in exasperation, “It can’t be done.” The instructor then showed the class it could be achieved only if you put the big rocks in first. Once they were in the jar the smaller gravel was added, filling in the gaps between the larger stones. Then the pebbles were added filling in between the gravel and rocks. While it looked full the instructor then added the sand that filtered in between the smallest crevices all the way to the top of the jar. Finally the teacher slowly added the water, which filled in between the smallest of spaces between the grains of sand. The point: We only have a limited amount of time in each day, week, or year with many tasks, events, and relationships that are important or necessary for us to complete in our lives. However, only when we plan the “big rock” roles, responsibilities and relationships in our time first and what is smaller and smaller after them will we ever accomplish what is most important and meaningful in our lives.
Lent is a good time of the church year to focus on the “big rocks” of our faith. When do I spend time in prayer each day? How will I worship this week? In what way will I study God’s word? Which option(s) might I take in serving those in need? Who will I invite to join me for a worship, fellowship, education, or service event hosted by Our Savior? Who do I know who needs encouragement? How might I give of my time, talent, and treasure to the needs of others from what God has given me? Read through the entire newsletter this month as there are many opportunities to plan such “big rocks” of faith during the weeks of Lent.
If you’re like me you may already be saying, “Pastor Wayne if you only knew how full my calendar already is you’d realize I don’t have any more room to and another “rock” to my schedule.” And that’s my point. How many of the items on my weekly agenda are not really “rocks” the roles and responsibilities that are most meaningful and important, but actually more like gravel, pebbles, or sand? Be honest with yourself. When I am I realize there are certain time consuming habits I’ve al- lowed to fill the time-jar of my days and weeks that simply are not as important or meaningful as the important roles and re- sponsibilities for which I complain I have no time.
So this Lent plan the “big rocks” first. Literally write them into your phone calendars, planners or wall calendars. And then honor them. Make those appointments with your faith life as important as any other commitment you write into those same devices of managing your time. You will be surprised how, when you plan the big rocks first, not only do you experience a greater sense of purpose and meaningfulness in the world but the smaller stuff often is accomplished as well. Let me know how it works out for you. I know I’ll need to practice what I preach this Lent!